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One of the most important times in our pets’ lives is the end of their life. We all try not to think about it, but unfortunately, euthanasia is a decision that almost every pet owner has to face.
We don’t let our pets suffer through intolerable pain and discomfort, and we want them to live with dignity and respect. This is why we also want them to die with dignity and respect. It is one of those decisions that you never quite believe is right because it is so final, and you love them so much. But for most of us, the decision is made out of love, and our pets know this.
I performed two euthanasias on the weekend. Both on Sunday, one late in the evening.
These were both out of hours, but really, when the time is right, you cannot delay. Both of these euthanasias highlight how much our pets play in our lives. For some people, they are a major extension of the family, and for others, they are the family itself, and their loss has a great impact.
One couple lived with their beautiful German Shepherd, just the three of them. Needless to say, they were very close, and Kahn was a very loyal and loving “son”. Even the neighbour, when he saw me arrive, came around to say goodbye to Kahn, sensing this was happening.
He was a kind of “godfather” to Kahn, looking after him when Kahn’s parents were away. It was a crippling decision that had to be made, and the anguish was palpable. T and M loved Kahn so much that they really didn’t want to let him go. They knew that he was in intolerable discomfort with his arthritis and could no longer move around, and it just wasn’t fair to let him live like that. Despite the struggle and sadness, they wanted to give him the best send-off they could and finally give him peace and comfort.
The second family had several children and two dogs. Everyone was present; in fact, we waited for M’s partner to come home, as he was away, and there was no way we could do this without everyone present. M held Spotty, a sweet cross fox terrier, in her lap while we prepared her for the euthanasia. I gave her some sedation to take the edge off and smooth out the process. Spotty had terminal Lymphoma, and the family didn’t feel chemotherapy was an option.
The decision whether to treat a pet with chemotherapy is just about as hard as the decision to euthanise; the ethics and considerations are the same. M and her family simply didn’t want their beloved pet to suffer through what could have been a very distressing and painful course of chemotherapy, which ultimately would have had the same outcome anyway.
So with the whole family present, we euthanised Spotty on M’s lap in the warm family room where Spotty would have been most comfortable. It was incredibly distressing and emotional for the family, even though they all felt that it was the right thing to do. There was no doubting the significance this sweet little character had in all their lives, and how much she would be missed.
I take pet euthanasia consultations very seriously. In fact, it is probably the most important consultation that I do. My goal is to facilitate a dignified, peaceful and loving transition from life to death and whatever lies beyond. I am there to support the people left behind and to encourage them that, despite what they may feel, they are, in fact, acting in their companion’s best interests and out of love.
“Being at home allows pets to remain in a familiar environment, surrounded by the people they know.”
Despite how hard and emotionally draining it is, I also find this time one of the most rewarding for me as a vet because I can provide people the option of giving one of their most beloved family members a comfortable, loving, pain-free and most of all, a respectable end to their life and prevent further needless suffering.
I found this little story a while ago when my wife and I euthanised our beautiful dog, Santana. My wife had lived with her for almost 16 years. The imagery in the story is really beautiful. Following it is another poem I found, which is very moving. Both typify the bond that we create with our companions, when really, there are few words that can adequately describe it. I hope you like them.
The Rainbow Bridge
There is a bridge connecting Heaven and Earth. It is called the Rainbow Bridge because of its many colours. Just this side of the Rainbow Bridge, there is a land of meadows, hills and valleys with lush green grass.
When a beloved pet dies, the pet goes to this place. There is always food, water, and warm spring weather. The old and frail animals are young again. Those who are maimed are made whole again. They play all day with each other.
There is only one thing missing. They are not with their special person who loved them on Earth. So each day they run and play until the day comes when one suddenly stops playing and looks up! The nose twitches! The ears are up! The eyes are staring! And this one runs from the group!
You have been seen, and when you and your special friend meet, you take them in your arms and embrace. Your face is kissed again and again and again, and you look once more into the eyes of your trusting pet.
Then you cross the Rainbow Bridge together, never again to be separated.
Key Takeaways
- Euthanasia is often a decision made to prevent ongoing suffering
It is considered when a pet’s quality of life has significantly declined. - The process is designed to be calm and controlled
Sedation is used to ensure the pet is comfortable before euthanasia. - In-home euthanasia allows pets to remain in familiar surroundings
This can reduce stress for both the pet and the family. - Families are supported through the decision and process
Time is taken to ensure everyone is ready and present where possible.
In-Home Services
In-home care forms the foundation of how we treat and manage your pet’s health. Most conditions can be assessed, treated, and monitored in a familiar environment where pets are calmer and easier to handle. Available to residents of Sydney’s inner city, Inner West, Eastern Suburbs and the Lower North Shore.
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Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know when it is the right time to put my pet down?
The decision is usually based on your pet’s quality of life. Signs such as ongoing pain, reduced mobility, or inability to enjoy normal activities are important considerations. Many owners make the decision when they feel their pet is no longer comfortable.
What happens during euthanasia at home?
The process begins with sedation to help your pet relax. Once they are calm and comfortable, euthanasia is performed. This allows for a controlled and peaceful passing in a familiar setting.
Can the whole family be present during euthanasia?
Yes, families can be present if they wish. In the example provided, the process was delayed so all family members could be there. This allows everyone to say goodbye in a way that feels appropriate.
Why choose euthanasia at home instead of a clinic?
Being at home allows your pet to remain in a familiar environment. This can reduce stress and make the experience more settled. It also gives families more control over the setting and timing.
Is euthanasia painful for pets?
The process is designed to prevent pain and distress. Sedation is given first to ensure the pet is relaxed and comfortable. The aim is a gentle and peaceful transition.
What factors influence the decision not to pursue treatment like chemotherapy?
Some treatments may extend life but can also involve discomfort or stress. In the example provided, the family chose not to proceed with chemotherapy due to its potential impact on quality of life. These decisions are made based on what is considered best for the pet.